The Naughty Kink Secretly Shared By Millions of Women

Ever think about the one topic that unites women all around the world? We’re talking about achieving a better sex life, of course! How can you do that, though? Once you get beyond the basics (like finding a partner who knows what they’re doing), you need to start exploring the wide world of kink!

When it comes to finding something sexy to try, you don’t have to reinvent the wheel. Millions of women around the world secretly enjoy one special kink that can supercharge a relationship, both in and out of the bedroom. It’s easy to get started, and it’s going to transform your sex life like you never thought possible.

The praise kink is a favorite of everyone from the mousy girl next door to the soccer mom with a van full of kids. What is it, and why does everyone find it so hot? Keep reading to find out!

What is a praise kink?

Mechanically, a praise kink simply means that someone enjoys receiving words of praise. This may come in the form of praising someone for a specific activity, like telling a woman she did a great job of making an amazing dinner. It can also come in the form of more general praise, like calling someone a “good girl.”

Speaking of which, your response to hearing “good girl” or other forms of praise is a good way to tell whether you have a praise kink or not. Generally speaking, everyone enjoys hearing that they did a good job, especially from a loved one. But if hearing these words fills you with warmth and light like nothing else, chances are you have a praise kink and will go absolutely wild from hearing your partner saying such things (bonus points if they whisper in your ear).

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Words of affirmation (naughty edition)

The praise kink doesn’t always make sense to everyone, especially those who aren’t very kinky themselves. If it helps, think of this as the naughty version of words of affirmation. If you don’t already know, words of affirmation are one of what author Gary Chapman dubbed the five love languages.

Chapman believed that every person had a primary love language, which is how they like for partners to express affection. Some women may prefer acts of service, such as a husband helping out with the dishes or the laundry. Other women may prefer physical touch, where their partner shows affection through hugs, holding hands, and kisses.

Words of affirmation have been one of the most popular love languages for decades, meaning women have had a long time to figure out how good hearing sweet words can be. Is it really all that surprising that more sexually adventurous ladies have transformed their love of praise into something deliciously naughty?

Who is likeliest to have a praise kink?

As we said before, millions of women secretly have a praise kink. Often, these are the last ladies you expect to be sold in the bedroom. That leads to an obvious question: who, exactly, is likeliest to have a praise kink?

Many who had a rough upbringing are likely to have a praise kink. These are the women who didn’t get enough words of affirmation from their parents and are that much more likely to enjoy hearing sweet words from their partner. And those with Daddy issues are even more likely to enjoy hearing the praise of a strong male figure.

More broadly, women who read romance novels (whether the books are sweet and loving or dark and smutty) are likelier to have a praise kink. This makes sense, of course: once you realize how much naughty words can turn you on, it’s only a matter of time before you bring the dirty talk (praise included) out of the books and into the bedroom!

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How to make this kink part of your sex life

A basic praise kink is easy enough to understand and take part in…all you have to do is verify that your partner likes it and regularly offer praise for their hard work and accomplishments. But what if you want to bring this particular kink more explicitly into the bedroom? In that case, there are a few easy ways to get started!

One simple way to bring a praise kink into the bedroom is to commend your partner for what they do. Without getting too graphic, try praising your partner for doing the activities you like best in bed. Be sure to emphasize how good they make you feel, and don’t be afraid to make liberal use of phrases like “good girl.”

Once you master the basics of the praise kink, you and your partner may want to experiment with a light BDSM dynamic where the partner with the praise kink is submissive, and the other partner is dominant. This may signify who takes charge in and out of the bedroom, and it provides a chance for both of you to integrate fun titles (like “Daddy” and “Princess”) into your relationship that are sure to take both sex and romance to the next level!